Last H birthday I hosted a tee time and a slight dinner for the whole the family. They were all present. It was not as stressful as it used to be because my SILs were there to help. At the dinner the children were the topic from puberty, dating, careers and even body building for the young boys. I notice H nephews were already grown as young men to think they were only in their teens. I had learned that they are into gym sessions and also taking some supplements such muscle milk. Na ja! What good thing is these children will grow in grace and in wisdom.